I Think I Know Why Britney Comes Out Stiff And Awkward.

[Guest blehh]

I want her to slay this next leg so bad. Because when Britney is on she is so good. I want her to enjoy being on stage, not look bored.

The rumors say she decided to step it up and bring her prime dance and sexy moves to the stage, It's probably fake but theres a slight chance its true God I hope so

[Puzla986]

things that happened to britney during her breakdown are things that will change a person for life. she won't ever be the same as she was before it again, and that's ok. she's getting better and healing every single day and instead of dramatizing her faults, we, as fans, need to be building up all her strengths. britney is an incredibly brave and strong woman

Agreed!

[Puzla986]

as fans, we need to be more accepting and understanding that though we do not know the details, something pretty serious happened to her mentally...and it's not something that should be shameful. mental illness is very very common but there is such a stigma against it. and sometimes these illnesses don't develop or made prevalent until someone is in their 20s or 30s and can be triggered or worsened by events...such as divorce, newborn babies (postpartum depression is very common), family issues. 

 

i think people are very quick to jump to the idea that she should be totally back to normal, but really what is her "normal"? she's come a long way and not just anyone could endure what she did and come out strong. she went through things that many women go through mid twenties and thirties but amplified 1000000x more because of media scrutiny and becoming one of the most famous and sought after persons in the world at only 17-18. As a 22 yr old, I'm not even sure I could even begin to handle the type of shit she put up with from the media and haters at that young of age.

Very well said, I agree!

[Joanhs]

The panic attack she had when the fan approached was really weird tbh. I mean at first I laughed cuz her reaction was funny but then i looked deeper into it. She was frightened, and why? It made me think shes mentally in the wrong place, I actually saw in that moment that circusney was nothing but a facade , on the inside, she was in a really bad place tbh, we just couldnt see it. Being on stage was probably the only place where she was OK, where she felt fine and at home, and the fan was intruder in this world of hers. Who knows tho its just my personal theory.

You still have to do things to take you out of your bubble, and Circus was a huge step for her, int he right direction, she looked great, she danced better, and she looked more happy than FFT. But it just takes 1 mistake to burst that bubble.You can't sit at home and do nothing when you have anxiety issues, because that doesn't help you move forward at all.

[Godney Jeansus]

don't hate me guys cuz im saying this from my perspective, this is just how i see it but

 

i know whats wrong with her. it's like me and her are personality twins. i know 100% of the time what she does like why she does those things. those reasons. me and her have such similar personalities. i am surprised so many people constantly think what brit does is always wierd when to me, thats normal. thats how i am all. the. time. also amanda bynes and miley cyrus. i totally get them. we all share same thinking. i could tell u why she does what she does but idk if people will believe. first of all, i think because we are so similar is because we have borderline personality disorder. the reason she can't look people in the eye is because she thinks they're judging her and hating her. borderline people are soo sensitive to the point where even the slightest thing hurts like hell. it's like having 3 degree burns all over your body, that's how sensitve you are and everything that happens around you effects you. no matter what. that's why she is so stiff, awkward, anxious all the time. i mean she's gotten a million times better now but im saying in general. check out this pic:

 

 

and she's always been sensitive, shy but having this perfect persona she's had and beauty to take away attention from this scary thinking, people didn't notice and kept her awkwardness completely hidden. like before, she's also avoided eye contact. idk if that's noticable to u guys, but she's always been hiding her eyes away from people. but then she started wondering if people love her for what she is and all her imperfections and so she started letting them out, one by one. having bad temper was one of her issues. she let that leak out sometimes. i mean i dont know how she had it hidden all these years, especially in such industry. she is allowed to b angry imo. and the worse reactions she's got, the worse she felt and the more she felt like she was hiding from people. that's why she went to the biggest extreme and shaved her head. she was mourning the person she was, she wished she was a better person without all the glitter and beauty, she wanted to b liked for who she is. and of course the world never did so thats why she has never liked her own self truly. i think she still beats herself up for what she did and who she is as a person till this day. she's not truly happy, and when she is it's lasting like it should be. that's why she is always in a relationship and not really enjoying her job as much as she used to. she's the kind of perosn that if she loves something, she's 100% dedicated but she hasn't been really herself with it. 

 

i feel terrible for saying these things cuz i know this makes it look bad and soemone is going to completely disagree with me or totally hate me for this but this is how i see it, from my persepctive and my own personal experience. also this is not always true, i am sure many times this doesnt apply to her cuz if she does suffer this illness too, she still functions and has a normal life just like everyone. it's not like always 100% of the time. there are very good days. (thats also what i think she meant by saying sometimes i have good days and then there are bad). anyway hope u dont all hate me. i wish i was a more positive person but i hope u guys appreciate me for being honest at least. 

 

     yass gurl let it all out. 

[Godney Jeansus]

Her interviews are flawless now, what are you talking about? I can't. Still living in early 2011 I see. I expect a thread like this on exhale, but wow, guess negativity spreads!

 

i didn't said that her interviews aren't amazing now i'm just saying that they changed since her prime. but some other members said that she grow up. we all have diffrent opinions and that's hy i made this thread

[CIRCUS]

don't hate me guys cuz im saying this from my perspective, this is just how i see it but

 

i know whats wrong with her. it's like me and her are personality twins. i know 100% of the time what she does like why she does those things. those reasons. me and her have such similar personalities. i am surprised so many people constantly think what brit does is always wierd when to me, thats normal. thats how i am all. the. time. also amanda bynes and miley cyrus. i totally get them. we all share same thinking. i could tell u why she does what she does but idk if people will believe. first of all, i think because we are so similar is because we have borderline personality disorder. the reason she can't look people in the eye is because she thinks they're judging her and hating her. borderline people are soo sensitive to the point where even the slightest thing hurts like hell. it's like having 3 degree burns all over your body, that's how sensitve you are and everything that happens around you effects you. no matter what. that's why she is so stiff, awkward, anxious all the time. i mean she's gotten a million times better now but im saying in general. check out this pic:

 

 

and she's always been sensitive, shy but having this perfect persona she's had and beauty to take away attention from this scary thinking, people didn't notice and kept her awkwardness completely hidden. like before, she's also avoided eye contact. idk if that's noticable to u guys, but she's always been hiding her eyes away from people. but then she started wondering if people love her for what she is and all her imperfections and so she started letting them out, one by one. having bad temper was one of her issues. she let that leak out sometimes. i mean i dont know how she had it hidden all these years, especially in such industry. she is allowed to b angry imo. and the worse reactions she's got, the worse she felt and the more she felt like she was hiding from people. that's why she went to the biggest extreme and shaved her head. she was mourning the person she was, she wished she was a better person without all the glitter and beauty, she wanted to b liked for who she is. and of course the world never did so thats why she has never liked her own self truly. i think she still beats herself up for what she did and who she is as a person till this day. she's not truly happy, and when she is it's lasting like it should be. that's why she is always in a relationship and not really enjoying her job as much as she used to. she's the kind of perosn that if she loves something, she's 100% dedicated but she hasn't been really herself with it. 

 

i feel terrible for saying these things cuz i know this makes it look bad and soemone is going to completely disagree with me or totally hate me for this but this is how i see it, from my persepctive and my own personal experience. also this is not always true, i am sure many times this doesnt apply to her cuz if she does suffer this illness too, she still functions and has a normal life just like everyone. it's not like always 100% of the time. there are very good days. (thats also what i think she meant by saying sometimes i have good days and then there are bad). anyway hope u dont all hate me. i wish i was a more positive person but i hope u guys appreciate me for being honest at least. 

I know how it feels, I know...

[POMNEY :3]

The panic attack she had when the fan approached was really weird tbh. I mean at first I laughed cuz her reaction was funny but then i looked deeper into it. She was frightened, and why? It made me think shes mentally in the wrong place, I actually saw in that moment that circusney was nothing but a facade , on the inside, she was in a really bad place tbh, we just couldnt see it. Being on stage was probably the only place where she was OK, where she felt fine and at home, and the fan was intruder in this world of hers. Who knows tho its just my personal theory.

Yes I agree with this, I think it was definetely this, remember during the first show in the Circus Tour that she was crying when she wad being lowered I always think it's her happy that she found her place again after such a rough time, and being able to perform again made her feel like herself again even if it was just for 90 Min.   but then it makes my wonder, what happened in Femme Fatale? She no longer enjoyed the stage or felt safe in it, in fact early 2011 was her worst with promo performances and interviews I think something must've been going on in her life that made her feel nervous, and her Anxiety showed a lot

[Guest blehh]

Yes I agree with this, I think it was definetely this, remember during the first show in the Circus Tour that she was crying when she wad being lowered I always think it's her happy that she found her place again after such a rough time, and being able to perform again made her feel like herself again even if it was just for 90 Min.   but then it makes my wonder, what happened in Femme Fatale? She no longer enjoyed the stage or felt safe in it, in fact early 2011 was her worst with promo performances and interviews I think something must've been going on in her life that made her feel nervous, and her Anxiety showed a lot

I guess we will never find out what happened between femme fatale and circus I wish we did tbh, but yes FFT was just awful, and I dont blame or hate on Britney for it like most of the fanbase, I feel like she was forced into it, I bet that if it was her making the decisions, she wouldnt even release ff in that year, she would delay it until she feels ready to slay again

[Nostalgia]

Why would they warn her to not look her in the eyes? Lame. 

[POMNEY :3]

I guess we will never find out what happened between femme fatale and circus I wish we did tbh, but yes FFT was just awful, and I dont blame or hate on Britney for it like most of the fanbase, I feel like she was forced into it, I bet that if it was her making the decisions, she wouldnt even release ff in that year, she would delay it until she feels ready to slay again

And she was ready to slay the Year before but then her team scraped her original idea and Feme fatale was re recorded and completed a week before release, Britney really felt forced into it and so she felt no enthutiasm for most of those songs, and I agree we have to understand Britney

[LiaLovesGodney]

And she was ready to slay the Year before but then her team scraped her original idea and Feme fatale was re recorded and completed a week before release, Britney really felt forced into it and so she felt no enthutiasm for most of those songs, and I agree we have to understand Britney

I can only imagine the amazingness we would have gotten if Britney had been able to do what she wanted for FF. She had seemed to enjoy Circus and I'm sure that momentum was crushed when they scrapped her ideas.

[POMNEY :3]

I can only imagine the amazingness we would have gotten if Britney had been able to do what she wanted for FF. She had seemed to enjoy Circus and I'm sure that momentum was crushed when they scrapped her ideas.

IKR  Imagine how flawless the era would've been Just the tour alone would be awesome

[Guest blehh]

And she was ready to slay the Year before but then her team scraped her original idea and Feme fatale was re recorded and completed a week before release, Britney really felt forced into it and so she felt no enthutiasm for most of those songs, and I agree we have to understand Britney

THE CSHIP MUST END ALREADY! LET THE WOMAN SLAY!!!!!!!!!

[Nelli Gaidai]

     yass gurl let it all out. 

omgosh another sweet sweet response       i cannot at all this love  i dont deserve all this  . thank u guys SO much. u have no idea how much i mean that

[Jack Spears]

When one has a breakdown like that, it doesn't just go away. It's there for a long, long time. She's trying so hard to get back to her normal self . " No ones more tough on her like she is on herself " - Jamie Lynn Spears. She's going in the right track though. 

[Everytime]

The panic attack she had when the fan approached was really weird tbh. I mean at first I laughed cuz her reaction was funny but then i looked deeper into it. She was frightened, and why? It made me think shes mentally in the wrong place, I actually saw in that moment that circusney was nothing but a facade , on the inside, she was in a really bad place tbh, we just couldnt see it. Being on stage was probably the only place where she was OK, where she felt fine and at home, and the fan was intruder in this world of hers. Who knows tho its just my personal theory.

ANYONE would freak out seeing a strange fan on stage coming towards them. Justin Bieber has that happen to him all the time and he runs. Honestly, you can never be sure what they'll try to do.

I went to a Taylor Swift concert and a girl jumped on stage and ran all the way to her. Taylor kinda had the same reaction and luckily one of her dancers came to rescue her.

[Everytime]

When one has a breakdown like that, it doesn't just go away. It's there for a long, long time. She's trying so hard to get back to her normal self . " No ones more tough on her like she is on herself " - Jamie Lynn Spears. She's going in the right track though.

MTE. Having a breakdown in front of the ENTIRE world would leave someone scarred, shy, and a bit insecure. But she's strong and she's coming back.