Nelli Gaidai Posted July 2, 2014 #2151 Report Share Posted July 2, 2014 aww i hate how this caused your childhood to be a waste. when other kids were getting hugs from there parents and tlc you and your siblings were beating. i am so sorry this happen to you. and why didn't your mom had the opportunity to run when he wasn't home? i am very lucky tho i was never beating by my parents on the spoon when i got in trouble other then that i was soo lucky. yea it was pretty bad. makes me still so sad all these years. and we were so scared of our dad we couldnt leave the house. i read now that what he did was domestic violence he put us through. my mom stayed with him well because of our religion. it is against the law to divorce so she just stayed. also financially, she couldnt have run with 4 kids. i mean this was back in ukraine, that is where we lived. i dont kno, i also think it was because like many women they stay in abusive relationships. maybe she was scared she won't b able to remarry or be loved by anyone. i mean she doesnt believe that a perfect husband or someone who is kind is out there. after such a traumatic marriage, she never believes those exist and she never wants to remarry. but she also could of stayed because she knew she was the victim and he was the one that was bad so it was kind of addicting in a way idk. she also said she worried about him. she feared if she left, he would kill himself. she couldnt hurt another human being like that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nelli Gaidai Posted July 2, 2014 #2152 Report Share Posted July 2, 2014 alight but......... or i could give u a spoiler if u want me to. or a little preview of what its about 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nelli Gaidai Posted July 2, 2014 #2153 Report Share Posted July 2, 2014 i don't know how to explain it i just do I hope we do get chance to talk at some point in this hour my computer is on a timer it'll go off at 12 am on the dot my mom added it that ughh oh no! this is just sucks. i hope we'll talk some more tho before it does 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nelli Gaidai Posted July 2, 2014 #2154 Report Share Posted July 2, 2014 I love how the op is like (only Britney related stuff) but people just goes on posting Christina pic and movies ect, ect, ect ahhaa ikr and our conversations. they have nothing to do with britney JOKES EVERYONE. u didnt hear that last part i wrote 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nelli Gaidai Posted July 2, 2014 #2155 Report Share Posted July 2, 2014 that's even worst then being drunk because he can turn on you at any moment i had such great time with my brother when he was sober but when he got that 24 case of beer i know he is going to be hammered by the 6th beer he was so closed to burning the house down everytime he would try to cook he would leave things on that would burn and it would just be scary i had to like watch him cook at 4 in the morning when i was super tired. holy shit! he sounds like an asshole. i know he is addicted and it is not his choice anymore he is dependent on it but to put u through all of that like that is just so mean i am so sorry boo u had to go through that is he still addicted to it now? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nelli Gaidai Posted July 2, 2014 #2156 Report Share Posted July 2, 2014 haha you caught me at the worst time my computer is shutting off in like 90 seconds oh no! i am sad boo that is ok we still have the tomorrow to talk with each other agian unfortunately 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
timbits Posted July 2, 2014 #2157 Report Share Posted July 2, 2014 or i could give u a spoiler if u want me to. or a little preview of what its about no don't spoil for me i need to be patient i'll see it at some point this year. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
timbits Posted July 2, 2014 #2158 Report Share Posted July 2, 2014 holy shit! he sounds like an asshole. i know he is addicted and it is not his choice anymore he is dependent on it but to put u through all of that like that is just so mean i am so sorry boo u had to go through that is he still addicted to it now? Omg was he ever he always talked shit about my Dad when he was drunk it was always the same shit he would bring up. Yes I even mention in another post that you probably never saw that he elbowed his gf back in March he went to Jail for it and is now back with her doing his shit My family & I have literally tried everything to help him nothing seems to work rehab didn't work either. So I am just going to let him slowly die. He found rockbottom but i think he is past that now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
timbits Posted July 2, 2014 #2159 Report Share Posted July 2, 2014 oh no! i am sad boo that is ok we still have the tomorrow to talk with each other agian unfortunately Ya sorry for not mention that to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
timbits Posted July 2, 2014 #2160 Report Share Posted July 2, 2014 ahhaa ikr and our conversations. they have nothing to do with britney JOKES EVERYONE. u didnt hear that last part i wrote it doesn't i know!!!!!! poor britney no i didn't here JOKES EVERYONE. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
timbits Posted July 2, 2014 #2161 Report Share Posted July 2, 2014 yea it was pretty bad. makes me still so sad all these years. and we were so scared of our dad we couldnt leave the house. i read now that what he did was domestic violence he put us through. my mom stayed with him well because of our religion. it is against the law to divorce so she just stayed. also financially, she couldnt have run with 4 kids. i mean this was back in ukraine, that is where we lived. i dont kno, i also think it was because like many women they stay in abusive relationships. maybe she was scared she won't b able to remarry or be loved by anyone. i mean she doesnt believe that a perfect husband or someone who is kind is out there. after such a traumatic marriage, she never believes those exist and she never wants to remarry. but she also could of stayed because she knew she was the victim and he was the one that was bad so it was kind of addicting in a way idk. she also said she worried about him. she feared if she left, he would kill himself. she couldnt hurt another human being like that I get where your coming from. And he probably knew everybody there so if you were to find somewhere to hide from him they would easily tell your dad where you guys are hiding. Again and a million again I am sorry this all happen to you. But I am glad you are living here now (not in Canada i mean but you know what I am saying) At least it's all over and you can move on with the rest of your family. How did your Dad die and how long ago was it? My mom died from Heart Failure in 09 so that's about 5 years ago and my Grandpa died last August from Old age. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nelli Gaidai Posted July 2, 2014 #2162 Report Share Posted July 2, 2014 I get where your coming from. And he probably knew everybody there so if you were to find somewhere to hide from him they would easily tell your dad where you guys are hiding. Again and a million again I am sorry this all happen to you. But I am glad you are living here now (not in Canada i mean but you know what I am saying) At least it's all over and you can move on with the rest of your family. How did your Dad die and how long ago was it? My mom died from Heart Failure in 09 so that's about 5 years ago and my Grandpa died last August from Old age. thats ok. i think i am starting to finally deal with it. its been 4 years. he died of a heart attack as well on his way to work. he was actually in a car and it was stick shift so it stalled right by a stop sign a block away from our house. noone believed us. thats the thing. my mom would tell people how bad he was. all his friends always knew him as this amazing guy. they thought we were bitches for sayiing stuff like that! it was terrible. and even now, i can spot people like him easily. i even tried telling my freinds who were getting married to not get in those relationships and i was right! the guys were TOTAL ASSHOLES afterwards. but they didnt believe me so i just keep it to myself now. people have NO IDEA what kind of people are out there. its so terrible. i was so unlucky to have had him in our life but u kno what, maybe there was a reason. maybe i'll b able to do something with that. its sort of lke a gift u kno. to be able to sense these people. and at the same time i also kind of feel bad and wish them best still u kno. i mean it was my father figure, i still cared for him. so who knows. we'll see where life will take me. he was like a completely different person at home and around friends and the public. it was insane. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KIMBERLYNEY Posted July 3, 2014 #2163 Report Share Posted July 3, 2014 it is a rare interview from 2001 that leaked from MTV this year http://www.mtv.com/videos/interview/britney-spears/982197/britney-on-her-future-family-2001.jhtml yayyy tysm 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KIMBERLYNEY Posted July 3, 2014 #2164 Report Share Posted July 3, 2014 she kind of looks like a fly on this gif HAHAAHA idk why it reminds me of a fly 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
timbits Posted July 3, 2014 #2165 Report Share Posted July 3, 2014 thats ok. i think i am starting to finally deal with it. its been 4 years. he died of a heart attack as well on his way to work. he was actually in a car and it was stick shift so it stalled right by a stop sign a block away from our house. noone believed us. thats the thing. my mom would tell people how bad he was. all his friends always knew him as this amazing guy. they thought we were bitches for sayiing stuff like that! it was terrible. and even now, i can spot people like him easily. i even tried telling my freinds who were getting married to not get in those relationships and i was right! the guys were TOTAL ASSHOLES afterwards. but they didnt believe me so i just keep it to myself now. people have NO IDEA what kind of people are out there. its so terrible. i was so unlucky to have had him in our life but u kno what, maybe there was a reason. maybe i'll b able to do something with that. its sort of lke a gift u kno. to be able to sense these people. and at the same time i also kind of feel bad and wish them best still u kno. i mean it was my father figure, i still cared for him. so who knows. we'll see where life will take me. he was like a completely different person at home and around friends and the public. it was insane. wow i'm sorry you went though all this as though out your childhood and throughout your teenage years this is a tragic and i would never want to wish anybody this type of abusive life. like he never once showed his mean side to any of his friends? that doesn't seem right if he acts like an asshole to you at home but he was nice to you all in pubic am i right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
timbits Posted July 3, 2014 #2166 Report Share Posted July 3, 2014 no not at all. ive had my eye on him from back when he was a tiny guy in the movie little manhattan. i remember thinking i canont wait till he grows up, he is gona slay hollywood he is actually a year younger than me but its not a big deal. he is such a sweet guy, he's got the most kind eyes and the sexiest gaze omg and he is so sensitive like i wanna kiss him so bad omg another Josh stan if we can get more stans then RockYourCockOut will make a thread on Josh ya he is the type of guy your father would soo approve of omg his sexiness is just so hard to look back i can't stop staring at my sig the hotness is real. sooooo glad your another stan i was just telling RYCO in pm that i would love a 3some with britney, david beckham, & josh the sexy would be amazing MY BODY IS READY JOSH COME GET ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
timbits Posted July 3, 2014 #2167 Report Share Posted July 3, 2014 @ btw love your avi hot danceney Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nelli Gaidai Posted July 3, 2014 #2168 Report Share Posted July 3, 2014 i read it again and i just burst out laughing hi sweetie how are you? ikr it's freaken hilarious 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nelli Gaidai Posted July 3, 2014 #2169 Report Share Posted July 3, 2014 no don't spoil for me i need to be patient i'll see it at some point this year. oh ok no probs bb :kiss: 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nelli Gaidai Posted July 3, 2014 #2170 Report Share Posted July 3, 2014 Omg was he ever he always talked shit about my Dad when he was drunk it was always the same shit he would bring up. Yes I even mention in another post that you probably never saw that he elbowed his gf back in March he went to Jail for it and is now back with her doing his shit My family & I have literally tried everything to help him nothing seems to work rehab didn't work either. So I am just going to let him slowly die. He found rockbottom but i think he is past that now. OMG that is beyong horrible he needs a wake up call ASAP. make him watch 'addicted' on netflix. maybe that will help a little Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nelli Gaidai Posted July 3, 2014 #2171 Report Share Posted July 3, 2014 Ya sorry for not mention that to you. that is ok. not ur fault 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nelli Gaidai Posted July 3, 2014 #2172 Report Share Posted July 3, 2014 it doesn't i know!!!!!! poor britney no i didn't here JOKES EVERYONE. haha 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nelli Gaidai Posted July 3, 2014 #2173 Report Share Posted July 3, 2014 yayyy tysm u r welcome :kiss: that inteview always makes me sad because she is crying and because this was released during the time when i thought she would really retire its still too painful to see that interview for me. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nelli Gaidai Posted July 3, 2014 #2174 Report Share Posted July 3, 2014 wow i'm sorry you went though all this as though out your childhood and throughout your teenage years this is a tragic and i would never want to wish anybody this type of abusive life. like he never once showed his mean side to any of his friends? that doesn't seem right if he acts like an asshole to you at home but he was nice to you all in pubic am i right? yep. like he didnt give a fuck about us. usually if we were in public, he would b spending time with his friends. and yeah he'd b nicer to us. i mean my mom's family believed her. some people did because he did leak sometimes, u kno his emotions would go through. he tried covering them up but sometimes they would just still be there. yea its really terrible. i dont even wanna think about it. ive had so much of it that i never wanna remember. its kind of pointless looking back anyways u kno Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nelli Gaidai Posted July 3, 2014 #2175 Report Share Posted July 3, 2014 omg another Josh stan if we can get more stans then RockYourCockOut will make a thread on Josh ya he is the type of guy your father would soo approve of omg his sexiness is just so hard to look back i can't stop staring at my sig the hotness is real. sooooo glad your another stan i was just telling RYCO in pm that i would love a 3some with britney, david beckham, & josh the sexy would be amazing MY BODY IS READY JOSH COME GET ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! he is so perfect. and its so right- what kind of a parent would not like him. he is not even human. he's partly angel thats for sure. ahhhh he is sooo freaken cute 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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